8 Responses for "Women- What are your standards for sex compared to mine as a woman?"

1. Vanessa Hudgens March 26th, 2010 at 3:37 pm 1

   I prefer to be neatly trimmed down there and hairless everywhere else (except my head, duh). I also prefer to have showered a few hours before and smelling good, with nice underwear on. I don't wear any makeup except for blush and some concealer, so I put those on as well. It's hardly unreasonable to want to feel sexy while you're having sex, and I wouldn't feel that way messed up and unshaven.

2. selena gomez March 26th, 2010 at 3:37 pm 2

   I prefer to roll around in the grass and dirt and then get it on. lol jkI doesn't really matter. I've had sex in the shower and sex right after he's been working out and sweating like a pig. I don't care. Hair is hair ..so what.

3. selena gomez March 26th, 2010 at 3:37 pm 3

   I have my man waxed once a week whether he needs it or not. I prefer the natural look for myself though because I don't want the Patriarchy telling me how to look.

4. Vanessa Hudgens March 26th, 2010 at 3:37 pm 4

   I do not know the exact answer but i wish there were many more women like you out there; have you thought about writing a book or starting doing seminars? You should!

5. justin bieber March 26th, 2010 at 3:37 pm 5

   I like to have just finished a long jog on a hot day from my local fish market…that way i have a ready excuse for my lack of personal hygiene

6. Vanessa Hudgens March 26th, 2010 at 3:37 pm 6

   I shave because my husband likes it, otherwise I wouldn't bother. I may or may not have had a bath before we have sex, it depends on the circumstances. it doesn't bother my husband either way, if he wants sex he doesn't care whether I've had a bath or not. And I never wear mascara or any kind of makeup, I am naturally lovely without it.

7. Vanessa Hudgens March 26th, 2010 at 3:37 pm 7

   i am the same way… nah your not alone. my boyfriend doesnt really care but i like to do it for him <33

8. taylor lautner March 26th, 2010 at 3:37 pm 8

   I'm a man and i can say you're doing it right.It isn't a matter of the "patriarchy" telling you what to do as Feminazi says. It's about having good hygiene. Men are turned off by women who are hairy, unclean, and smell bad. Nothing is sexier to a man than a woman who is freshly showered and smelling clean and has nice smooth legs and soft skin. Plus, if looking good makes you more self confident and less self conscious, you'll enjoy the sex better and so will he. I'd personally prefer a woman with a bush as long as it's not a jungle because it makes her look more natural and womanly. But leg and armpit hair are a big turn off for men because it makes him think he's with another man. But keep doing what you're doing.