12 Responses for "Why does everyone want to hate Asian Indians for dating their own race?"

1. taylor lautner March 14th, 2010 at 6:39 pm 1

   If you did like a white women, would you be pretty pissed if she wouldn't ever consider you just because you are Indian? Seriously, it pisses people off when they can't even get a chance. Honestly, I like Indian women, but white guys like me hardly ever even get a chance. Don't get me wrong I don't think people "hate" Asian Indians, but they don't like the feeling that they can't get a chance.

2. miley cyrus March 14th, 2010 at 6:39 pm 2

   You are right when you say that people tend to marry people that they understand. It is easier to understand your own culture than someone elses, and that does not make a person racist. It can be hard for some people to see beyond culture and actually focus on character. We are creatures of habit, and cultural habits are just hard to break. Marry and love who ever you want, regardless of who they are on the outside.

3. miley cyrus March 14th, 2010 at 6:39 pm 3

   I have no issue with people dating/marrying inside their race, I have a problem with people putting down other races or tell others that they're wrong for dating/marrying outside their race. What you're describing here is just your preference, I don't see you as racist or closed-minded at all.

4. lady gaga March 14th, 2010 at 6:39 pm 4

   Race at all doesn't bother me, Just Racism. I don't hate Asian-Indains for dating within their race, let them do what they want to do. You can control people.

5. taylor swift March 14th, 2010 at 6:39 pm 5

   Because they want a chance to date an Indian, like me. T____T

6. justin bieber March 14th, 2010 at 6:39 pm 6

   Not a thing, some people need to be real pain in the asses

7. selena gomez March 14th, 2010 at 6:39 pm 7

   no one cares

8. Vanessa Hudgens March 14th, 2010 at 6:39 pm 8

   nope i like asains i have freinds even they r.like you knowww??but idc im so blind i caqnt see them

9. selena gomez March 14th, 2010 at 6:39 pm 9

   I don't know. I don't believe choosing to date a certain race should be called racism. Just like I don't think choosing to date a certain sex is sexism. When it comes to sex and dating those rules just don't apply.Am I sexist for only ever being willing to date and have sex with men, without ever even considering other women? Is it more wrong to want your child to be heterosexual then it is to want them to date in their own race? I think when comparing what is racist and what isn't, it helps to think of whether the same thing could be considered sexist.

10. taylor lautner March 14th, 2010 at 6:39 pm 10

    Lol, that's not racist. I'm from a african/arab culture and I know perfectly what your talking about.You wanna be with someone with the same cultural, religous, and ethnic backround. No confusion on how to raise the kids and whatnot. It's comforting being with someone who understands you.I dated all kind of races, and I'd perfer to marry someone with simalir backround as me. If he isn't,it's not the end of the world. But something new (:

11. lady gaga March 14th, 2010 at 6:39 pm 11

    It's not a matter of 'having' to be attracted to people of other races if you're not, but sometimes Indian people can come across as really racist in this area.For example, I am engaged to an Indian man, and I am white. We are both far happier with our relationship than we could have been with people of our own races. My fiance doesn't find Indian women appealing, physically or mentally and generally I don't find white men appealing either.Despite this, however, I've had more Indian people than I care to remember giving me strange looks once I tell them that I am engaged to someone who is Indian, and I've even had many ask such audacious questions as 'do his parents know about you'. This is beyond insulting, rude and presumptuous and frankly maybe it's a good thing my fiance's parents were an inter caste marriage since they have been through all this discriminatory crap and have come out smarter for it. So I digress, but anyway now you know why people think of the way that Indians treat interracialal marriage as racist.

12. lady gaga March 14th, 2010 at 6:39 pm 12

    Look man, just ignore it. I mean let them whine and cry all they want, they can't do anything more than that. Pick yourself an Asian girl and let them all go in tears over it. I am a Brotha at a majority White college (which I will be transferring out) and I get called close minded because I wouldn't date the White girls here. I told some Blonde hair blue eyed girl to get lost and now everyone wants to label me as a Black supremacist. I don't care, I want myself a sista and that is who imma get!You want yourself an Asian girl, go get one and forget what others say. For all I know they are mad because they can't get a chance to be with beautiful Indian girls like you do.