Why do I have to use sunscreen my MOM RUBS IT ON ME HERSELF AND IM 14?
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Why do I have to use sunscreen my MOM RUBS IT ON ME HERSELF AND IM 14?
I'm 14 and started grade 9. Last friday of school and it was one of the school wide fieldtrips for our garde so we went to the waterslides for the whole day we got a form like a week before we went. i had to wake up real early on friday morning at 6;30 cuz the bus leaves early i was real tired and my mom told me to come into her room and there was this huge bottle of sunscreen on her dresser and she told me to take off my shirt so i did then she got the sunscreen and put it on my face then i had to stick out each arm for her to lather then I had to lift my leg up on the edge of the bed to get lathered all the way down to my feet and it took at leest 5 minutes and she put on way to much u can see it on my arms and legs still and i looked like a snowman. i told i could do it myself but shes just like thats my job i could easily do it myself but she said shes gona do it for me until im SIXTEEN. i dont have any siblings my mom is a long fitness insturctor and beauty consultant person so also and she always puts cream on her face before she goes to bed then calls me in to her room and she puts it on my face too and it gets annoying cuz thats for girls only.
its so emberasing on the bus everyone else in my class had sunscreen on to but they all put it on themselves or said they do themselves and im the only 1 who my mom does it for me but i also said i do it myself…Y is my mom the only one like this when everyone else in my class does it themself and i have to wait untl im 16? i want to know from parents that im too old for her doing that to me?
my mom says ther is skin cancer in our family her sister died of it but i can stil do it myself…im the only 1 its not fair. no other mom does this
and no every1 in my class already had it on no1 put it on when we got to the watersliders everyone smelld like sunscreen and every1 looked shiny when we all met at the class to go on the bus. no other mom dose this! (I live in Australia BTW
8 Responses for "Why do I have to use sunscreen my MOM RUBS IT ON ME HERSELF AND IM 14?"
wow. your mum puts some sunscreen on you. is this your biggest problem? seriously. maybe your mum is just really careful as there is skin cancer in the family and she wants to make sure. that sounds normal. you dont have to tell anyone that she does it. just say you did it yourself. its really not a big deal. its not the end of the world.
Tell your mum you'd like to put it on yourself instead of her doing it. Tell her to trust you and that you're growing up
Don't worry about it…if you were that embarrassed about it, why did you tell everyone?! I think she just may get a bit overprotective, what with her sisters death AND her being a beauty consultant. Maybe she doesn't want to to just chuck it on, so she puts it on properly. Next time, just tell her you are old enough to do it yourself, and that you wont forget. You have to reapply it throughout the day anyways, so I don't see why thats any different to you doing it by yourself in the morning. You could also ask her to buy you some guy moisturiser, so then you wont feel stupid with girl stuff on
Anyway, she is probably only doing it to protect you, ( I am 14, and have been doing it on my own for like, 10 years) but my mum still reminds me… But it will be ok…
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Just tell her she won't be doing it anymore, you will. Don't ask her. Tell her. This sounds to me like it could be a subtle form of sexual abuse. She may be getting a kick doing this. Just don't go the next time she calls you to her room or anywhere else for this treatment. Just don't go along with it. Even if it's not abuse, it's a violation of your physical and personal boundaries. You have an absolute right to put a stop to this. She's out of line.
1. off, see it from her perspective. basically your the only one she has and doesnt want to lose you but yeah your right she is going overboard. idk how but you have to find a way to let her know that you cant tolerate her treating you like an 8 year old.. especially when its only about sunscreen Oo
I would love for your Mom to rub sunscreen on me. I'd even put cream on her face.
You're old enough to put on your own sunscreen. Tell your mum you want to do it yourself. I think she really is overdoing it a bit. She should be encouraging you to do things for yourself, not holding you back.
Just make sure you don't get a ***** when she does it.
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