Why cant seem to get a date(I'm a female)?
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14
Mar
Why cant seem to get a date(I'm a female)?
Well I am 22, 6'11 light skin, African American, Red Hair, Not gorgeous but attractive, Nice Size. Love to Laugh and have fun. Very Creative, Open Minded and Intelligent. In college, Art Major, Love to cook, Have career goals and ambition. Do Volunteer work, Love conversation and romance. Into Photography, Love to sculpt and Paint. Love Reading, Watching Movie, Love all types of Music, Love Mexican Food. Want Kids, don't smoke, drink socially, Want to get married. Don't like drama, don't cheat, Don't like to argue or fight, can be reasonable, forgiving and Loving, but yet even with all of these facts it seems I am invisible. I don't know what else I should do, I have had boyfriends who pretend to like me to just get laid. Is it to much to ask for a romantic guy? I mean I don't even care about his outward appearance if he had a good soul/heart that is all I need. I am wrong?
2 Responses for "Why cant seem to get a date(I'm a female)?"
Best Answer – Chosen by Voters We all look for that shiny gem in amongst the rocks in life and I have yet to find my jewel.Men are interested in one thing and maybe two, sex is number one and getting what they want including sex is number two.I am sure it has nothing to do with your winning personality but frankly men could care less if you have one of those, it is just a matter of he wants to sleep with you and maybe lay around on your couch while you work and care for his 3 kids from 2 baby mommas.
1) You've revealed too much. Now we have nothing to talk about.2) All your college majors, life goals, whether you cheat or not, what kind of food you like or dislike, has ultimately no bearing whatsoever about whether someone will be attracted to you or not. Attraction isn't a choice, it's a consequence of your actions (flirting, etc).3) As for you saying you don't care of others' outward appearance, that's utter bull****. If it were true, you'd be hooking up with a homeless bum as easily as you'd date a millionaire. The outward appearance is the first thing we see on others', so it's the first thing that attracts us, not the college majors, or your hopes and dreams.
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