Why cant i find a guy?
I am a good looking female im not bragging or anything but I always get approached by guys or have them look my way. But, the sad reality is that I can't keep any guy for the life of me..and the one ex boyfriend I had didnt even care about me. He was a complete meat head and all into himself, yet he never cheated on me. I am starting to believe I am unlovable and unable to ever find someone. I believe it was my ex might have changed my personality a little bit into a very shy person since he was always very jelous and never showed much emotion at the same time (doesn't make much sense but its true). Its just depressing because I see many good looking girls get boyfriends so easy! I mean im slim 5'5 118 pounds and have black hair tan skin and blue green eyes. Please help…it would be greatly appreciated! Also, I'm 22 and very successful and motivated with a sweet loving personality

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20 Responses for "Why cant i find a guy?"
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it seems that you aint the problem here, maybe its the guys that you meet and you appear to deserve better than them. Theres someone out there for everyone trust me you will find someone if your good looking you have nothing to worry about, its just finding the right man that will love you always init. You sound very nice in your description, by the way i'm 19 and in the same situation !
Ah Andrea, it might just be that you're attracted to the type of guys who have this personality trait. Trust me! There are guys out there who will worship you, want to spend time with you, and basically just have a fun relationship with you. Guess what… it will happen and … when you least expect it to! So don't worry. You're still young and it will come. Take care sweetie!
Don't give up! The right guy will come around some time! The worst thing that you can do is give up, if you give up then you will stop taking as much care of your self and you will not look as nice. Your last bf was a jerk, but don't be shy! Be happy, smile! Guys like girls who smile! Laugh at their jokes even if they are not funny! Be nice! You will get a guy some time!
no cluein my case i suspect its my wife's parental types.some of don't like me but not enough to allow a divorce. Source(s): just a theory, seems like the last possibilities i had were thwarted somehow, bad lies or whatever, 7 chances in like 15 years, i'm ready for another, my knows this but won't admit it.
maybe u go for the wrong guys, bad boys arent the best. it sounds like maybe you've got a few insurcurities (cant spell) jealousy? not having the care about you. be more independant with your relationships as well. n dont go for a guy who hits on u. u want someone more worthy than that. they're only after one thing. Make sure u go on adate with the guys, be yourself, ull soon find someone.x
maybe your settling for less i think theirs a person out there for everyone you just gotta find that person dont give up just look in the right place, maybe your looking in the wrong places.
Be confident…having a pretty face won't get you anywhere unless you have the attitude to back it up. I won't say what we have in common, but the factors are there. Continue to be nice, but don't anyone run over you.
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You have a good description. You will probably meet someone qualified in grad school or at a social function very soon. Those relationships usually last long
You dont need a man hun(:You dont need another person to make you happy. Dont worry about it. Someone will come around
It helps when you're around guys a lot, and develop friendships with men.
All the right things all the wrong places?
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I feel 4 u i'm the same way accept 4 i'm not a girl.
you just need to go out there and show the guys of how u really r… just be more talkative and outgoing
sh!t what state you live in?
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You shouldn't be looking for someone. You're pretty and confident and looking just slows down the process of finding someone and makes you anxious. I consider myself pretty good looking (also not bragging) and it had been 3 years since i found someone ever since my ex who is very similar to how yours was. But i recently found someone i really like. The feeling is mutual. Have you thrown out everything your ex gave you? If not do that. Sounds like you need to let go of some emotional baggage. Don't worry. Someone will come around soon enough. As tough as it sounds…just be patient.Good luck =)
It's hard for a lot of us. It's easy for a good-looking girl to get attention, sometimes harder to find someone who understands you and who appreciates you for who you really are. But he's out there! Almost everyone finds someone sooner or later.Try to feel good about yourself. You -are- loveable. We all are. When guys ask you out on dates, go out with them, but don't fall in love with them right away, don't put all your hopes and dreams on them. It takes a few dates to get to know a guy well enough, to see what he's like. He's sizing you up all this time too. A guy and girl might already be sleeping together, or even -living- together, when they realize that they really aren't each other's type. (Or even worse, one realizes it first). Just remind yourself that there are other fish in the sea, and you would rather sleep alone than with someone who doesn't 'get' you.I didn't meet my Someone Special until I was 33. I had just about resolved that I was going to spend my life alone, and in fact I was starting to think that might not be so bad. Then I met this girl in a night class, and we have been together since that day. I think sometimes that a big part of it was that I wasn't -looking- for a girlfriend, I had given up on the idea altogether, so I was more self-sufficient, not so clingy and demanding.
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