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26 Mar
Why are some people incredibly insecure?
I can honestly say that I've never really felt that way. I feel very comfortable in my own skin. I've never truly understood this. Why can't people love themselves as they are? Why can't they realize that if they are jealous of someone else/like something about someone else etc.; that if they work hard to succeed/get help that they too can feel good about themselves? I often say to myself, wow that person is really smart and has such and such [like a degree or something]…if I work hard, I can have that too. As for beauty or psychological problems; being accepting of yourself and knowing when to get help when you need it. I wish more people would react this way instead of projecting their problems.
4 Responses for "Why are some people incredibly insecure?"
I think you would be shocked of how many people who are actually insecure.I used to be really insecure and it had a lot to do with my up bringing, i was neglected and was never shown any affection. but i imagine your upbringing was rather different than mine, therefore you were probably raised in a different manner, leaving you as a self confident individual. Could you imagine not having much support and how that would affect you as a toddler? As children enter this world naive and vulnerable to our environments. How are children to know that they are worthy of love and self acceptance if they don't have parental guardians to show them? OR how are children to know how to love themselves if there own parents exhibit insecure behaviour such as jealousy? There are a lot of factors that need to be considered in order to understand insecurity. I know for a fact that insecurity stems from a lot of childhood issues, and they tend to be vary from person to person. Now that i begin to become more self confident each day, I'm starting to realize that more than 98% of the population is insecure. That's only because I know how to read people and see past the image they may portray.My question for you is if you're trying to understand why people are insecure, why does it bother you if their insecurity projects there problems? That's contradicting, wanting to understand but not enough compassion to understand the root cause of the projection of ones problems. Source(s): Me i used to be REALLY insecure.
Because they have no sense of individuality.
They are immature and react like toddlers..be gratefull u are wise .it is less painfull when u deal with life in a mature way
If nobody was insecure, who would we exploit and walk on on our way to our dreams?
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