Why are men afraid of women?

Last night I was washing my face, I left some face wash behind and he said, "you have some of that, that stuff on your face." I told him it was just face wash, does he not wash his face? I used to work fora skin care company and men always wanted to stop and have me give them facials but when they did they all acted like they had to play dumb around the "girly" stuff. Men have a hard time saying the word "tampons." And they all like to laugh and say.."Oh that must be a woman thing." When I go out with my friends it is deemed "girl's night out," which I hate. But when he goes out "he's hanging out with his friends." How come women don't go "Oh it must be boys night out."
I hate how men freak out over a tube of lipstick, and look at it like they don't know what it is. It's like they all assume that we stick everything up our vaginas. Every time they see anything in the form of a tube they look at it like it's an alien.
Does anyone know what I'm talking about?
It's very unattractive of men, shame shame.