White Americans: Do you care more about your pets or your kids?

I am not a racist person by any means here, I love people of all color and I have friends who come in all languages, skin color, and cultures.

Notice in my question I did not say White people because that would mean I am referring to Germans, Italians and all Europeans, I said White Americans specifically. Living in America for years (almost a decade) I have noticed that Hispanic, Asian and African American families tend to hold their kids dear to them and love them. Having a lot of White friends I have noticed that most White Americans don't really care that much about their kids but that is not the matter of discussion, I am surprised to find out that a lot of them would much rather care for their pet dogs or pet cats.

I notice most White Americans kissing their dogs and cats but not even giving their kids a hug. I mean that is just sad.

I feel that my knowledge on this topic is minimal and superficial but I have seen this happen QUITE OFTEN so I just decided to ask everyone on here and maybe I am viewing it the wrong way.

Can you guys please answer my question and help me clear my understanding on this topic?