which psychologically compels people to appreciate ……?
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26
Mar
Which psychologically compels people to appreciate ……?
Most of the people in this world crave for, and appreciate the beautiful things in life. In Most cases, there is a demonstration effect which psychologically compels people to appreciate things which they were never familiar with. It is very easy to appreciate the face of a beautiful young girl. It is very easy on our nerves to like delicious and lip smacking food. It very natural for us to appreciate spacious homes with gardens and plush facilities. But Friends, in midst of all these, we tend to miss out on one very important fact and that is that true beauty lies in our appreciation itself. It is for this reason that we have this age old wise saying that "Beauty lies in the eyes of the Beholder". CONTENTMENT is true beauty. An enlightened soul is always content with very little and a corrupt soul never stops at even a mountain of desires being fulfilled. Thus, Greed is very ugly.
You ask any good looking woman or girl about the personal traits that she desires in her dream man and very frankly she would say that she wants a Man who would truly love her and not mere her body. In other words she is actually telling us that she wants a Man who is basically content with her as a person not taking her external beauty into consideration.
Thus, if you as a person are content with whatever you have, you are Beautiful in true sense because of the positivity and optimism in your attitude. Fake parameters of beauty begin to wrinkle like the skin of a beautiful woman after a point of time.
What are your opinions in this regard ? Do you agree or disagree ?
3 Responses for "which psychologically compels people to appreciate ……?"
Your picture paints a beautiful, fantastic world of peaceand serenity. The only quarrel I have with your statementsare that they reference me in terms of correct orincorrect thinking. If you had expressed these ideas as truefor you and avoided the universality of them, it wouldhave been believable. Otherwise its simply more ofthe same "I have the answers for you" rhetoric.
Interesting question and of course your extensive answer.
I don't think people want partners to be merely content with them.That is searching for acceptance and that is an indication of insecurity.I believe we look for contentment when we do not see it in ourselves. Above wanting to be loved we yearn to give love.We confuse the two.We want love in order to be able to give it.If we gave love without condition we receive it.Love does not see beauty in relation to an opposite.It is beauty of itself.We crave to give love of ourselves without understanding we need to see the beauty of love in ourselves first.Once we see what we truly are all craving subsides.
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