What are your opinions in this regard ? Do you agree or disagree ?
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What are your opinions in this regard ? Do you agree or disagree ?
Most of the people in this world crave for, and appreciate the beautiful things in life. In Most cases, there is a demonstration effect which psychologically compels people to appreciate things which they were never familiar with. It is very easy to appreciate the face of a beautiful young girl. It is very easy on our nerves to like delicious and lip smacking food. It very natural for us to appreciate spacious homes with gardens and plush facilities. But Friends, in midst of all these, we tend to miss out on one very important fact and that is that true beauty lies in our appreciation itself. It is for this reason that we have this age old wise saying that "Beauty lies in the eyes of the Beholder". CONTENTMENT is true beauty. An enlightened soul is always content with very little and a corrupt soul never stops at even a mountain of desires being fulfilled. Thus, Greed is very ugly.
You ask any good looking woman or girl about the personal traits that she desires in her dream man and very frankly she would say that she wants a Man who would truly love her and not mere her body. In other words she is actually telling us that she wants a Man who is basically content with her as a person not taking her external beauty into consideration.
Thus, if you as a person are content with whatever you have, you are Beautiful in true sense because of the positivity and optimism in your attitude. Fake parameters of beauty begin to wrinkle like the skin of a beautiful woman after a point of time.
What are your opinions in this regard ? Do you agree or disagree ?
7 Responses for "What are your opinions in this regard ? Do you agree or disagree ?"
Contentment, ya akhi, comes from remembrance of Allaah, not neccessarily "if you as a person are content with whatever you have, you are Beautiful in true sense because of the positivity and optimism in your attitude"….a person can be very evil and a wrong-doer and is displeasing Allaah, yet is content in that.. does that make him or her beautiful ?? I don't think so.Also, "In other words she is actually telling us that she wants a Man who is basically content with her as a person not taking her external beauty into consideration"a girl who is goodlooking etc and flaunting it wants you to appreciate her beauty and not take her character neccessarily because she thinks she has what men want… !! So I disagree with you.Frankly, I think you have a very superficial theoretical understanding of life. Also, I would suggest you to focus more on Qur'aan and extracting the principles from it, not looking so deeply into age-old sayings…the true and flawless knowledge is in the Qur'aan and authentic sunnah.When you step out of them, you are heading into errors in understanding reality. which will cost you severely if you are not careful. May God guide us all. Source(s): and Allaah knows best
100% agree.except not ALL good looking women would say that, the shallow ones would look for a man based on appearance as well.Ramadan: my question isn't showing on homepage, please answer?
I agree 100% Your personality, internal beauty is forever, external beauty is temporary and can be gone in a flash.
Agree
I agree, beautifully put.
idk but i knew this lady who was likei dont care if my husband is drunk or what ever..all i want him it to be handsome!!salam alaikum
…what ? (all she needs to do is be able to swallow) the rest comes naturally !
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