12 Responses for "To bisexuals, how is it you are attracted to both when?"

1. taylor lautner March 26th, 2010 at 4:34 am 1

   For me, while the physical may be attractive in someone, the personality, the soul, the attitude is what I fall in love with. I would argue that sex with men and women as an expression of love has two parts; the emotional and the physical. Men and women are, drastically, obviously, different physically but emotionally the connection with a lover is very similar.Men or women may be aggressive or gentle or passionate or boring in bed and equipment has little to do with it; its the person.Might not make sense to many, I don't know.

2. selena gomez March 26th, 2010 at 4:34 am 2

   Wait, are you saying you don't understand someone liking two different things? Cold showers and hot baths? Taking the stairs or riding in the elevator? It's like asking how come blondes can be smart or how innocent looking people can be naughty. People are complex. It's not all black or white. Sometimes it's gray and sometimes it's black AND white. Source(s): Hope my examples and comparisons didn't confuse you further.

3. taylor swift March 26th, 2010 at 4:34 am 3

   Men and women aren't polar opposites. One's personality, how physically fit one is, which subculture(s) one is a part of, and other factors people consider when looking for a mate are not (very) affected by gender.

4. miley cyrus March 26th, 2010 at 4:34 am 4

   Wow, great answers! I feel it's the differences which are so exciting. Still…getting kissed can be much the same, getting sucked is always fabulous. I live with women and prefer women. Guys were an acquired taste for me, like eating dill pickles. Really big dill pickles.

5. Vanessa Hudgens March 26th, 2010 at 4:34 am 5

   Well, bisexual men get erections from both… that's how. Source(s): Happy to educate you ^^ *nuzzles*

6. selena gomez March 26th, 2010 at 4:34 am 6

   Well, remember when you were 3 and you didn't find anyone sexually attractive? Its like that, only the exact opposite.

7. taylor swift March 26th, 2010 at 4:34 am 7

   I'm not sure how to explain this. But really it's not all about the sex. Sexually I prefer women. They are so much easier to look at than a man lol.

8. selena gomez March 26th, 2010 at 4:34 am 8

   i think that most bisexual men become attracted to other men is because they get bored of women

9. lady gaga March 26th, 2010 at 4:34 am 9

   we just happen to have a gay sexuality , while still having the strait attractions too . its not for everyone , but we feel it enriches our lives -

10. taylor swift March 26th, 2010 at 4:34 am 10

    *sings* Sometimes you feel like a nut, sometimes you don't. Source(s): The most simple answer I could come up with.

11. taylor lautner March 26th, 2010 at 4:34 am 11

    Can you like both apples and oranges? Or bananas and pears? They may be very different, and not everybody likes both, but it's a matter of taste.It's like, sometimes I want a man, with calloused palms, who's strong enough to literally sweep me off of my feet and put me exactly where he wants me. I want him to fill me up, and to hear a deep voice growling in my ear. I want to feel the hard planes of a man's body, the thin mat of hair on his chest, in contrast to my own softer skin.But a woman's sweet moans are just as exciting as a man's growls. And she knows how to scrape her nails lightly over my skin to make me shiver. A woman's taste is sharper and sweeter than a man's, and no less arousing, while her reactions mirror my own, so I know she's feeling a lot of the same things that I'm feeling. Also, women tend to have an instinctive understanding of what other women like.As for preferring one over the other–I do have a slight preference for men, and am in a long-term relationship with one right now. He's perfectly fine with my bisexuality, though he's about as het as they come.

12. justin bieber March 26th, 2010 at 4:34 am 12

    That is a tough question. You are absolutely right. The difference in the sexes is great. As for loving and being with either, that's easy in my point of view. While I love the soft velvety feel of a woman, her soft touch and looks, I also love the hard muscular feel of a man. Some women, you look at and WOW…there's something about her that makes you want to get to know her. The exact same thing happens with certain men. I mean what is it that attracts us to one another. Not all people are beautiful so there is something else to it. A magnetism, animal instinct…something. But as you say a women is sensual, men are too. We just hide it more than women do. As for myself, I'm more inclined towards the ladies, but I'll tell you this…being a single man, if the right man comes along…he and me will soon be we. I hope I didn't muddy your thoughts up too much and also say that no offense was felt through your question.