This is a question for black women?
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14
Mar
This is a question for black women?
Why is it that I hear all the time that black women have a problem with black men dating white women? I mean, I am white, and I would not care one way or the other if a white man dated a black woman. People should look past the skin color and at the person. I will date any race, as long as the man has a good heart and good intentions.
I am just curious. The reason I am asking is cause there is an article in Essence where Jill Scott is saying that is a problem for her; black men dating white women. I think people need to get over the "race" issue. What are we teaching our kids?
Thoughts?
21 Responses for "This is a question for black women?"
Black women only have a problem with it whenever the black man prefers white over his ownwhite women USUALLY don't do that, when they date out of their race, they prefer ALL races of menblack men only say "all races EXCEPT black women"different conceptwhen i see a white woman with a black man, i think that black man is a sellout, and i think nothing of the white woman…simply because most black men or women(not all) that date other races(not just white) don't do it because they love ALL races, they do it because they HATE being black and dislike their racesmost statistics have shown that black men who have relationships with whites tend to not date black women at allwhereaswhite women that have relationships with black men will date a white man or any race of man if she choosesBIG DIFFERENCE
no the problem is black men going for light skinned black/ mixed race/ white and anything else apart from dark skins! they seem to have a problem within themselves and this must be self-hatered for their own race. I'am light-skinned black and I don't like the reason that they are flocking to me is because I'am light, look mixed etc…It should be about beauty all races and colours.
Seriously, most black women really do not care. I am black and my girlfriends are black. We do not care. I think people are trying to make black women seem like they are angry, because black men date outside of their race. The black women I know do not care. If I wanted to date outside my race I could but choose not to.
this black man will never date outside his race. I love my black women and I would never date a non black woman. those black men who are dating outside their race are morons. I cant believe they would rather date a non black women instead of a beautiful black woman. Anyway, I'm just going to stick with my black women only. I love my black sistas!
i dont feel this way.my friend said she has a problem if a black men enters the corporate world and THEN dates only white women.me personally I think anyone can date whoever they want. Love is blind.I just hate when a black man thinks black women are unnattractive because HELLO your mama is black!
I don't care really. I may be a little concerned if a black man says he doesn't date black women because were all ghetto and loud. Which is not true,every human being is different to make a generalization like that is straight up ignorant. But whatever.
When I have kids, I will teach them to date whoever it is they like. I'm a lesbian, how could I teach intolerance, yet expect people to tolerate my lifestyle?
I don't like the black men who date white women and demean black women in the process. If you like white girls, fine but why insult all black women to justify your preference?It's silly.
Everyone is free to stick their in any vagina that they wish to regardless of the color differences.Who really gives a sh*t about interracial dating still??? It's 2010 for f*ck sake!
Jill Scott doesn't represent all black women!Most people couldn't care less, they are both HUMANS. Source(s): I like white guys, mexicans and blacks.
personally: i couldn't care less who other people choose to date :: none of the black guys i know that do date white women are cool/date material anyways
I don't care if black men are dating out. I do not own black men nor do they own me.
Yes, all black women world-wide have a problem with black men/white women datings.
I don't actually. I date outside my race too.
What exactly are you asking?
Why is it that white people always want to stereotype others? I don't care what black men do
honestly i used to be disappointed when i saw a black man with a white girl, but i grew up and don't care
tell that to the KKK, Aryan Nation, and those militia fools in the bushes
why would anyone want them
I think White people need to stop reading our magazines.
First, I want to say that I am glad that you do not mind such things and have an open mind. That is wonderful! Moreover, I think the issue with black women disliking the notion of black men dating white women has to do with many things. First, black men are rare. lol. I know that may sound silly but it is the truth. There are fewer black men than black women, white women and white men in this country. Second, a good percentage of them are inprisoned and missing from black households where they are considered to be needed. With these two issues the concern of black women is that the good black man who is dating a white women is one of the few who is not imprisoned or whatever and could be present in a household in the black community. A third issue with black women is that we are very much disrespected in alot of ways and are told (whether this is true or not is another thing) that we are not as beautiful as white women and our habits are admired while being put down at the same time in the media. This gives us a sense of defensiveness and that includes defending our men, the men we gave birth to and raised. Now, I am black and am simply stating points of view of many black women I know. I am not saying anything negative about black men or white women. This is just the truth of some of the attitudes behind this matter.But keep in mind that ALL black women do not feel this way and date outside their race also. I am open to love not race!
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