Stretched ears ripped !?

The story :

Okay so yesterday I put in these softwear/software tunnels from freshly stretched 00g to 1/2g . I know it was stupid , so don't preach to me . I did it a year ago , no problems . But when i decided to go back up again this year , I guess I went to fast . This morning I awake to THROBBING , BURNING pain in my ears . Just as I suspected , they were swollen && infected . I tried to take the softwear/software outta my ear , just to see that they were practically glued to the skin . I freaked the hell out & just took them out as soon as my mighty hand would let me . Blood SPLATTERED , not dripped , BUT SPLATTERED everywhere , && was literally pouring outta my ear . I finally got the bleeding under control , put in some 16g regular earrings (to hold my piercings open at least) , then cleaned those suckers with saline solution (salt water) . Now here I am , 16 hours later , a million cleanings later , waiting for some answers . help a child in need , yes ?

The actual questions :

-Should i put my 00g back in instead of the regular piercing ? I truly don't care about keeping them stretched , I want to ensure the health of my earlobes first . (remember , no preaching .) Plus , I don't think they would fit back in after the 16 hours of ripped-ness .
-How should I treat my ripped earlobes ? The skin is turning black-ish colour , where the actual rip is . The lobe itself is no longer red , swollen , or sore . Besides the trauma of ripping .
-Do I have to "down gauge" , or can I just take them completely out ? I prefer taking them out , because I want my ear to heal before I decide to start stretching again . I'm sort of traumatized now .

Pleaseeee people I need your immediate help , best answer gets ten points !
Besides the points , you're helping a person's health !
Thank youuuu .