13 Responses for "Skin color DOES matter in gay men relationship?"

1. taylor lautner March 14th, 2010 at 1:32 pm 1

   Best Answer – Chosen by Voters If someone over analyzes something then argument can be made to justify just about anything.No, skin color doesn't matter one hoot with regards to a gay relationship. What matters is consistency of the content of character.

2. taylor swift March 14th, 2010 at 1:32 pm 2

   Just as people prefer different genders, they'd prefer different colors, I guess. I don't see it as anything racist, because it's just a preference. You're not saying a race is inherently *better* than another (at least I hope not), you're just saying you relate more sexually to a certain race. I have a certain race that I prefer, but I don't think it's something that only happens in gay relationships.

3. justin bieber March 14th, 2010 at 1:32 pm 3

   People can not really help what they are PHYSICALLY attracted to. I'm not attracted to black girls physically. But if I happened to meet a girl who had a great personality and she just happened to be black it wouldn't stop me from falling in love with her. But physically I prefer white girls.That book is stupid. You can't judge a persons personality by their skin.

4. taylor swift March 14th, 2010 at 1:32 pm 4

   well i think its about personal preferences, i mean im asian but had colored partners that are african american and also i been wit sum native americans types to i do go wit sum asian but its personal preferences. or it can be age i mean us teenagers go wit anythin

5. selena gomez March 14th, 2010 at 1:32 pm 5

   white guys mostly loves white guys, blacks, asians, and other races tend to mix more often

6. justin bieber March 14th, 2010 at 1:32 pm 6

   Skin color and race are not the same thing.

7. selena gomez March 14th, 2010 at 1:32 pm 7

   Hu I've been with 4 difference races and I like them all.

8. miley cyrus March 14th, 2010 at 1:32 pm 8

   i actually think you make a good pointand as cruel as it sounds, it is kind of true. white people do tend to be the most in demand. and i notice that usually asians/indians are the least in demandi dont know if this is preference or inherent racism. maybe because asian man aren't seen as being particularly masculine? in most movies it is usually the white guy who is portrayed as the sexy hero (even as young as the prince charming in all those children's novels.) so maybe this has subconsciously affected people's sexual preferences.having said that i am white and im dating an asian guy right now and i think he's extremely hot.

9. lady gaga March 14th, 2010 at 1:32 pm 9

   I think that book is ridiculous. When it comes to physical attraction, I am attracted to white guys. I happen to be black myself. I just don't find black guys attractive at all, I'm guessing this could have something to do with the fact that I was sexually molested by a black guy when I was younger. But I'm not sure. I think personality should dominate whether you like someone or not, but in this world alot of it is based on looks. I don't want to get into a debate over race, but I personally believe that the reason why lighter skinned people could be in demand more, has to do with slavery times. During slavery times, the lighter you were the better. Black people today have still struggle with the issue of skin color, I can tell you that first hand. But what's important is that we not still dote upon this and just try to move forward.j

10. taylor swift March 14th, 2010 at 1:32 pm 10

    I am a white guy and I was into black girls for awhile cause I had a long term relationship with one. Now I am back into white girls. So my point is that I change preferences depending on possibly the last relationship or the last sexual encounter I had.But yeah like the person above me said you cant judge someone by the color of their skin. Yet when it comes down to sex depending on their race I kind of know what to expect they are into and what they like which could be an inherited trait. I think being a guy if a girl is willing to put out and i find her sexy I am not going to discriminate cause of the color of her skin and some of the best sex has come from black girls yet white girls are good also same with Asians. anyway thats enough rambling out of me.

11. selena gomez March 14th, 2010 at 1:32 pm 11

    The same inarguable, beyond-my-control instinct, which determines my sexual orientation and gender preference in broad generality, also governs exactly and in minute detail what I find beautiful and desirable–including the race of my preferred objects of desire. For me it has little to do with skin lightness or darkness, but everything to do with hue: I find people of the Indian sub-continent, whose skin is sometimes virtually black, to be as attractive as white people; but any hint of sallowness, like the Japanese skin color, or of yellow-black-brownness, like sub-Saharan Africans (even in men who are only a quarter or an eighth black), is a complete and total, deal-busting turn-off–as is also any suggestion of femaleness, femininity, or effeminacy. I don't defend it, that's just how it is with me.

12. lady gaga March 14th, 2010 at 1:32 pm 12

    eeeeeewwwwww

13. taylor lautner March 14th, 2010 at 1:32 pm 13

    all I know is, gays are nasty