Should I wax or use hair removal cream?

I have very pale skin and have noticeable hair on my upper lip…yuk. I bleach it at the moment but I'm still self-conscious as you can still see it in the light…In fact I think it looks worse :( So what do you think is better: waxing strips or hair removal cream? I don't really care about pain, but I heard with waxing you have to wait for the hair to be a certain length before you wax it! I don't want this – it will look like stubble! I want to be able to wax it as soon as i notice it… Also how long would this take?

With the hair removal cream. I heard that it has a similar effect as shaving, in which the hair grows back coarser and darker. I was also told that you have to do it twice a week, something I don't want to do! So, what do you ladies do, and is it recommendable? I am only 15 by the way… it was embarrassing enough asking my mum for the bleach!