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14 Mar
She's driving me crazy! What should I do about this girl?
Now to the problem. There's this girl named Chantal who I met a month or so ago during auditions for our school musical. She immediately caught my eye, but then I found out she was a freshman. I am a senior. Well, a few weeks ago on a Monday I was joking around with a few of my friends at lunch about girls, and I brought her up. I found out one of my friend's sister is good friends with her, and he asked if I wanted him to tell his sister. I said no, because I, in desperation, tried stuff like that before, and it never worked. Well, while playing Xbox Live later that night, I receive a message saying that his sisters knows, and I of course want to kill him for telling her. It appears that wasn't the case, and in fact Chantal has been talking about me, saying I seem like a cool guy and she wants to get to know me. So, I agree to let my friend's sister give Chantal my number, and we text a little bit. I wasn't much of a texter, so the conversation doesn't go very far, and I tell her that. Well, I learned to text very quickly after that. Later that week, a huge snowstorm hits, and she asks me if I want to go sledding. We schedule on Valentine's day. Now, all this time I think she likes me, but her best friend told (and still tells) me that she doesn't like me in that way. Well, of course this hits me hard, but nevertheless, we BOTH have a great time on Valentine's day.
Now, we talk a lot over the phone, but in person, it's kinda…eh. It doesn't get very far. I don't know if it's because she's nervous because she does indeed like me (and her friend is lying), or…yeah. I tried something last week that she (and her mom) thought was very nice: I brought her cupcakes. And she LOVED them. We are, as of this moment, planning on hanging out again this weekend (March 5th), and I am currently planning on asking her to prom. And also, the way she looks at me is just magical (as corny as that sounds), and when I was at this lock-in, I caught her looking at me a lot…)
Now to a little about this girl. If I could make my dream girl, she would have dark brown hair, brown eyes, pale skin, very skinny (seems to be a trend with me…), really funny, extremely nice, listens a lot (I do like to talk sometimes), and be very interesting and like to talk (I also like to listen). I also like a girl with great legs. Now, don't think I'm a perv, because I prefer girls to be…clothed. My friends think I'm strange when I say I don't like to think of girls in *that* way. In fact, she dresses very nicely and I could care less. But anyways, she fits every single category. Heck, she even has a French name and takes French as a class! (I like it when girls speak in French…). Also her eyes are just gorgeous, and her smile quite literally almost made me pass out one day..
So, what should I do??!?!?!?!!!?? I find her to be perfect (so far), to the point where she made me find video games unenjoyable and to the point where I'm looking for all sorts of advice to give myself some confidence. I don't want to mess this one up…
8 Responses for "She's driving me crazy! What should I do about this girl?"
ok here is what i think, u guys like each other, but you are both shy about it. i have a friend, small 4,7 girl, going out with this massive 6,8 senior (shes a freshman). it is not that weird, i think that it is cool. but besides that, you like her right? if she likes you she will get her friends to say she doesnt like you, or whenever you and her, and her friends are around, her friends like move away, or she like leaves, she either likes you and her friends know it, or she likes you and her friends do not know it. Source(s): yeah, some personal experience, but again i am a frosh talking to a senior. and i have a gf, going out for over 5 months, and we are happy. i had no idea she liked me till she asked me to this dance thing
think Final Destination
she knows you like her. keep doing what you've been doing and you'll be fine.
be a sweet heart and ask her to prom and then sooner or later if she starts giveing u more clues that she likes u start flirting with her but not in a EXAGERATED way and if she says yes to the prom while ur slow danceing ask her if she wants to go out with u Source(s): idk im very good at this type of stuff
Wow, I can't believe I actually read the whole story lol.But what you need to do is ask her how she feels about you, no matter if its by text or in person.If she feels the same way you feel about her, then further it by asking her to prom, and then eventually asking her out(to be your gf)As far as your future, with all the military stuff, she may get lost in the shuffle. I really don't know what to tell you about that.
I think you shouldn't rush it. And why don't you just ask her yourself if she likes you? Don't go off of what her friends say. Her friends could be jealous so never go to the friends for answers. go straight to the source. I don't think you should ask for advice on here honestly you should be asking her all this and letting her know how you feel. =)
You're rather unrealistic about the "perfect girl" thing. Look, if she's so perfect, then that's that… you just cherish what you've got with her and love her with all you've got. Is it that hard to figure out? Have you no common sense? You don't want to mess it up? Then don't. If you really mean it, then you wouldn't be cheating or anything like that now would you? Relax will ya! Lol. Anyway, happy for the both of ya.
Try to wait it out and take it slow. Keep hanging out with her. It's better to become friends with someone and get to know them before jumping into a relationship with them. Ask her to prom and if she seems weird about it say that it's okay if you only go as friends.Good luck with everything!
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