5 Responses for "self confidence??? will give best answer.?"

1. lady gaga March 14th, 2010 at 5:10 am 1

   Best Answer – Chosen by Voters Oh f*u*c*k him. He's just a jerk and you don't need him anyway. You need to find someone who's gonna be with you cause he likes you. If you jerk of a bf thinks your not good enough, dump him and let him go find someone else that will deal with his crap. You are fine. Blue eyes and dark hair is hot. And let me tell you, big boobs are just a pain in the ***. They get in the way of everything. I'm 19, and I've had big D almost DD cups for 5 years now, and I would honestly rather have B cups.

2. Vanessa Hudgens March 14th, 2010 at 5:10 am 2

   look, if he wants to be mean, you need to dump and forget about him. Your pretty nomatter what anybody says don't you ever forget that. You can do better than him. Go find a good guy. if you need anything else, message me or comment or something

3. justin bieber March 14th, 2010 at 5:10 am 3

   i agree with sexychic if he doesnt like you the way you are then he doesnt deserve you .go find someone who likes you for you not for what they want to change

4. taylor lautner March 14th, 2010 at 5:10 am 4

   Wow. Glad your not with him anymore! What a downer! A great way to boost your self confidence is to reach out and start doing things that YOU like. For instance enter an art contest, join a choir, school play, sports team, church group, volunteer. Understand that when you feel confident about yourself and your abilities it really wont matter what ANYONE, male or female says to you or about you. (Because you'll know in your mind its not true and you'll be able to laugh it off) Secondly, when you give those stupid thoughts or words he says time "in your mind" you create a place for them to stay. Treat those words like un-wanted house guests! As soon as one enters, just mentally push them right back out the front door and say No, thanks! What I would also suggest is to write down quotes you like, lyrics to songs, poems, etc. and stick them up aroudn your room, on a bathroom mirror, in your notebook. Let positive says and words surround you and sooner you will feel better.Best Of Luck!

5. miley cyrus March 14th, 2010 at 5:10 am 5

   My oldest daughter (she's 18) has had the same issue. She's on the petite side and is about 5'5 and is also a B-cup. Though I tell her all the time that she's beautiful, it doesn't mean the same coming from your mom as it would coming from boys and I understand that. You need to take back the power that you gave that boyfriend to make you feel bad about yourself. Remember that every girl is different and that's a good thing because why would we all want to look the same? Just because that boy wasn't necessarily in to how you look doesn't mean that there isn't someone out there who would love to be with a girl with your body type and who has blue eyes and brown hair. In my daughter's case, she did things that would help boost her self-confidence like she joined Speech and Debate. It might sound silly, but getting up in front of a group of your peers and argue something that you feel strongly about really does help your self-confidence. If you're basing your self-worth totally on your looks, then others will do the same to you and you can't allow them to do that to you but first, you need to stop doing it to yourself. I'm sure you have other attributes that make you a wonderful person who's worthy of love! Once you begin to realize that you're far more than just your breasts and your hair and your eyes, your self-confidence will begin to reflect that too. Good luck!