Undecided Question

Please please help my skin?

So I don't have bad acne at all but i have a terrible habit of picking my skin. I have gotten a lot better at controlling it, but whenever i shave i can't help but picking the minor bumps that appear on my neck, which i know are natural for the most part. Right now, the cuts on one side of my neck are pretty bad and i have tried to use stuff but its only drying out my skin. Its just basically cuts now that need to heal. What should i do? Like before i go to bed should i mosturize and just leave the cuts open so they can heal? I need to take care of the dried skin too now as well as the cuts..I can't go anywhere without thinking someone is looking at my cuts and i have no confidence watsoever..i have only worn collered shirts recently to even hide them a little bit.. please help