Is my monroe piercing infected? is there something wrong?

I got my piercing on wednesday ;
It's a monroe and i'm really scared cause it's still a LITTLE red from the outside; and the little ball looks like it's going in!

it's a 16 guage;
and when i use my tongue to take it out like i push it up from the inside i can see a bigger hole i think? and the skin around it is all slimy and wierd and bigger; no not really slimy just like wierd
and i'm freaking out!
is there anything wrong ? i've been taking good care of it! help me PLEASE