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14 Mar
Is it worth considering surgery for my physical imperfections?
minor physical deformities through injuries years ago and recklessness ; a crooked little finger that droops over slightly………..2 missing teeth at the front, bottom row ….im balding , taking a balding treatment medication.
and whats even worse is ive always been a perfectionist vanity person…..and my obsessive worries are making me focus on these things.
im now 32 and are far different from the perfect young lad i was because of ageing, life stress….its horrible to look at old photos and compare the difference.
someone recently in one of my recent questions suggested the '' surgery route '' to correct my premature ageing and minor physical deformities .
do you think there could be a lot of plus points by looking into surgery , even though im on fixed income and not able to afford it right now or in the near future ?
could surgery fix the problems ive described here , a surgeon said my crooked little finger couldn't be repaired by surgery , but would a private surgeon be able to correct it ?
or should i just invest in a good skin care brand instead like moisturisers etc
i just want straight forward answers here.
4 Responses for "Is it worth considering surgery for my physical imperfections?"
Theres no point in wanting to go through surgery, you should go along the lines of, 'Well, my physical imperfections are here to stay, i might aswell make the most of it'. You can easily get your missing teeth replaced and moisturisers can make a hell of a difference. Open pores can be closed with different face exfoliants etc. and dark line under the eyes can be corrected with home remedies. Everyones got imperfections, some more than others, but theres no point in putting yourself on a downer about them. x]
You are the only one who can make this decision. You have to decide if it bothers you enough to have it done. If so, go for it.
It is TOTALLY worth it. As long as you find a good doctor and the results are natural looking. GO FOR IT! DON'T LET ANYBODY DISCOURAGE YOU! DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY!
This is truly too personal a subject to advise upon. However, some of it, you might be better guided to save your money and use it to buy groceries. If other parts of it are of major concern to you, I would strongly encourage you simply to look into the whole thing a little deeper. Go on a kind of information gathering session, done slowly and deliberately, over time. I am sure you will learn a lot about what is involved when we decide to change our looks, for whatever reason(s).The idea is to decide first of all if you can afford it. If money is not an issue, then you have to try to keep it all in balance and not go overboard. You have probably seen people who are addicted to plastic surgery. Grim stuff. I saw two people who had had so much plastic surgery they look as though they had been crossed with an animal. I would not like to look like that. They did not look quite human anymore. The whole thing left me feeling just a little strange inside my stomach. I'm sure you know what I mean. You have to be careful you don't get carried away by all this stuff.Personally, I would not mind a new pair of glasses and maybe some false teeth, but the rest of me is ME and that is just the way I am. I have a great sense of humour, and it would be very untruthful of me to be so concerned about my appearance. The person I am is so far beyond appearances as to negate the value of language. Source(s): Sent with positive energies from your old friend Chris in South Portland, Maine, U.S.A. I am now 67. I feel much younger and that is what counts. The bottom line with all of this question you have raised is what works for you. People may comment, but the final decision will and should be solely yours to make. I am very practical, have much better uses for my money, and would probably just leave well enough alone, but that is just me and my temperament speaking… Chris < smiling >
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