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26 Mar
Im insecure about my looks – help?
The event i went to was a red carpet awards night and the celebrities were also obviously hot (i work as a reporter) and im even thinking of finding a new type of job because it makes me so insecure going to places with so many hot people. I feel unattractive. I went out after to a few bars and i had to drink so much to stop thinking about my looks. I was out with a guy from work (just a friend) and i kept thnking i bet he wishes he was out with a hot chick instead of me. I drank so much i dont even remember how much it was – i just kept drinking really fast and going to get more drinks. I didnt eat anything either because i felt bad.
I know i sound insecure and all that stuff about inner beauty but it is hard when you dont feel pretty around all these pretty people and i dont see my family so its not like im always told that im loved by people just the way i am.
Advice?
7 Responses for "Im insecure about my looks – help?"
Wow firstly your a reporter and was at the awards show last night – I wonder if it was the ARIA thing on…. what a great job. Secondly i doubt your unnattractive ( ithink it may be in your head) because reporters are usually on the attractive side…Thirldy, your right about one thing 'inner beauty;- let me tell you you could be the most physically attractive person ever with the greatest proportion and still be insecure as hell – i whould know my whole life i have been told geez you have great body – you should be a model bla blah and i actually did model a little and am currently with a modelling agency but dont really work for them just one off things u know – i have a day office job, but anyway the point is im in my late 20's and its taken me about 20 plus years to feel confident about myself – because i was the most insecure child on the plannet. so painfully shy and sensitive if some one looked at me wrong i would break – but know i love myself including the way i look but more so whats on the inside.Any psychologist would tell you feeling beautiful has everything to do with how you feel inside out – you need to work on that everyday – because i can guarantee no one is looking at you and judging you – your the only one who is doing this, your are your worst critic…..Love your self – its hard but every day will count and a few months or years your confidence will soar…..
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Aw honey. I'm sure you're absolutely gorgeous and this is psychological. I mean you've been through a lot, with your ex and your mum, it's no wonder you're feeling down on yourself. 52kg is NOT fat for someone who's 5'6"!!!Drinking to make yourself feel better or more confident isn;t the right way to go though, and I think you know that. But I understand that, i've gone through periods of low self confidence and I do exactly the same.You need to find yourself some good female friends who will tell you that you're gorgeous and will help you with your look and that'll help you gain confidence. Hope you start to feel better soon x
Dear first of all I am here to help you and to be your frnd who can understand ur feeling because I am gone through the same situation onceFIRST OF ALL DONT DRINK THAT MUCH IT CAN GIVE NEGATIVE IMPACT TO YOU SO PLSSSSSSShey some time back I was having some doubts/feeling to be in a relation ship we must have this things like money ,bike ,car,branded cloths etc…………………or must be from a good royal family or we must be having good complexion ,fair .muscular body like that seriously I am trying since two years every girls reject me saying ur brother ,i seen you in that way, u can afford me ,sorry I have already 4 boy friend,u don't have good complexion , we are good match ……but this all nothing concentrate on your career .They many celebrities who don't have any good complexion…..But they survive because of the quality in them so believe in your self dear To get in touch with me plssssss mail me @vignuucool@yahoo.inwaiting for ur mail Source(s): own experience
Hmmm. Well maybe we could help each other b/c I feel the same way sometimes. I'm also a little bit on the shy side so that doesn't help. Advise to you. If ur 52kg and 5'6" you probably look pretty hot already but try to remember this. Remember how most of these celebs look when they don't have all the make-up, the expensive clothes and the extra accessories that accentuate their average assets.If you had all these thing you would look just as good. If you remember that the celebrity image is just an illusion it may help you. If that doesn't work I try to focus on the one of two thing that uniquely makes me hot and tell myself that no one else has it. It may help Source(s): Personal experience
everyday look at yourself in the mirror…find one thing about yourself that you think is attractive….then give yourself an effusive compliment for it…do this everyday for a week with a different feature everyday pretty soon you will only be looking at your positives not your negatives!! life is way too short for these kind of doubts my friend live your life for yourself and stop worrying about how your veiwed by others…..coz really your own opinion is the only one that really matters
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