11 Responses for "I'm bisexual. Am I truly shallow for turning down unattractive people?"

1. taylor lautner March 14th, 2010 at 12:46 pm 1

   no,,, your attracted to who your attracted to,,, that's normal…you can let people know the way you feel in your body language,,, be polite about it that way too… when you say your "not too full of myself" i'm getting the feeling that you might be exactly that,,, and that's okay as long as you can hold up the show and be nice about it…edit:what you say is all well and good john,,, and in these days of being able to connect on the level you tout, in my experience you find out what someone looks like before it goes too far…

2. miley cyrus March 14th, 2010 at 12:46 pm 2

   There's ugly people with clear skin who are skinny. I hate when people automatically think they're good looking because they 'keep up with their appearance' and 'groom themselves'. No amount of grooming is going to cover up bad genetics.Also, to answer your question, it's not shallow, especially at your age. It's just natural attraction.

3. taylor swift March 14th, 2010 at 12:46 pm 3

   Not sure… I guess everybody is shallow in this area… I am too, I only want to be with a guy who's taller than me, and bulky as well (and I have a slender body). But his personality is most essential. I don't think you should feel bad, it's just human nature.Or maybe every human should feel bad.

4. taylor swift March 14th, 2010 at 12:46 pm 4

   If there's no attraction theres no attraction, you don't need to justify youreself. your are just particular, nothing wrong with that, just don't be a snob about it and you def don't sound like a snob.

5. lady gaga March 14th, 2010 at 12:46 pm 5

   There is a fine line between being shallow and being a human being. It's not bad of you to do what you're doing. Physical attraction is an integral part of most healthy relationships.

6. taylor lautner March 14th, 2010 at 12:46 pm 6

   No, not at all. But when you're older and start to sag and get wrinkly, you'll realise looks aren't everything!

7. Vanessa Hudgens March 14th, 2010 at 12:46 pm 7

   There's no point if you are not attracted to them.

8. lady gaga March 14th, 2010 at 12:46 pm 8

   Nope

9. miley cyrus March 14th, 2010 at 12:46 pm 9

   no, but you might be missing out of something.

10. lady gaga March 14th, 2010 at 12:46 pm 10

    no, its your choice in life

11. Vanessa Hudgens March 14th, 2010 at 12:46 pm 11

    The first impression that you get from anyone you meet is how they look, and if you don't find them attractive, then it's hard to get enthusiastic enough about them to get to know them as a person.Think of it the other way. If you were chatting with someone over the internet, and really got on with them, and thought of them as a soul mate, then how would you feel if they didn't live up to your expectations when you actually met them in the flesh? Would you then reject them, or would you accept them for what they are?A relationship that's based on looks alone would be shallow compared to one where you're attracted to each other's personalities, and wouldn't be likely to last long.Remember that a person's personality will usually last longer than their looks.I know that it feels good to be with someone who's good looking, but is it because you like attractive people, or because you like to be seen with attractive people? Source(s): Personal experience.