13 Responses for "I need advice on why no one wants me?"

1. selena gomez March 14th, 2010 at 11:01 am 1

   Best Answer – Chosen by Voters I'm 18 actually turning 19 in 2 months and I have never had a boyfriend, and never even been kissed, so what? I have been called gorgeous my whole life and get stares everywhere I go but no guy has ever seemed interested or even tried to come up to me.It's not about quantity it's about quality, have you ever thought that maybe God has someone perfectly planned for you and he doesn't want any guy to interfere?did you know the more people suffer the better the reward at the end?Trust me it's all in your head, your only 17! you have a whole life ahead of you! and guys in high school are crap, your gonna kill yourself for a bunch of immature idiots? guys in highschool are a whole different species, they are just plain losers at that age. You need a man who is mature, a gentlemen, and loves you, you think your going to find that in high school?? pshhhh nah girl trust me. High school guys never came up to me either, but all the handsome successful 20 somethings that I walk by outside always stare at me and start conversations. I bet you look really sophisticated and mature and guys that age are afraid that your too much to handle. Source(s): Life experiences.

2. Vanessa Hudgens March 14th, 2010 at 11:01 am 2

   Please don't let this get you down. You are young (even though you may think not). Be patient and you will find someone that thinks your the most beautiful, funniest, smartest, interesting, etc. Most importantly remember that looks are not important, be yourself and you will be fine.

3. taylor lautner March 14th, 2010 at 11:01 am 3

   Start blowing guys. Once word of that gets around, guys will be wanting you Source(s): ive been a man for 12 years

4. taylor lautner March 14th, 2010 at 11:01 am 4

   Thats just guys being guys. They will eventually grow out of it and when you are older like 20 maybe guys will pay more attention to you. You cant worry about it. guys are not worth dying over.

5. justin bieber March 14th, 2010 at 11:01 am 5

   Look at magazines and on their websites!!!!!!

6. taylor swift March 14th, 2010 at 11:01 am 6

   all i know is nobodys ugly one day your gonna find the right guy for you and its going to worth waiting

7. selena gomez March 14th, 2010 at 11:01 am 7

   cause you just sounded like your bragging and no one fully describes themselves like that. btw wrong section

8. justin bieber March 14th, 2010 at 11:01 am 8

   i was 20 when i found my true love , just keep hanging in there you will find your other half.

9. lady gaga March 14th, 2010 at 11:01 am 9

   smile more.

10. taylor swift March 14th, 2010 at 11:01 am 10

    u sound like a great person! so i dont know!!!!

11. selena gomez March 14th, 2010 at 11:01 am 11

    Your measurements down to the inch have nothing to do with it. Having an attractive exterior is always a plus, but you have to shine both inside and out. By posting this, you are showing how insecure you really are. I'll bet you are a very smart girl, fun to be around, nice to others. Just be yourself and don't try so hard to make people fall in love with you. You have to remember that you get what you put out there. If you are insecure and trying really hard, people see it. If you act yourself and enjoy life, people will see it. If you are craving love and attention, people see it. Just relax, breathe:) You are beautiful.

12. lady gaga March 14th, 2010 at 11:01 am 12

    Honey, you're just 17… High school is only when all the romance mess starts! And not for everyone!It doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you. It just means it hasn't happened yet. I assure you it will.Also, there's a chance that there's someone you know who's interested in you and you just don't know it. That's what happened to me. I was sure nobody was interested in me and it turns out that this person was and simply didn't say anything.I don't know you in real life so I can't give you any tips or whatever, because I don't know how you carry yourself. But just because nobody confessed their interest in you yet doesn't mean anything is wrong with you.

13. miley cyrus March 14th, 2010 at 11:01 am 13

    From the way you describe yourself, you are all woman, and far more developed than most 17 year olds. Maybe you are aiming for guys around your age, when they are already less mature than you, even without your curves. They probably think you're going to eat them!So you'd be better off aiming for someone around 20 or 21 to start with, and you don't find these in high school.It is hard to sort out what the problem really is without a photograph, so I have to rely on my own thoughts of the black girls I have met (African or Caribbean presumably). You need to trade on your strengths, and not ever imagine you could be a Barbie doll. Black women have fabulous eyes – do not be afraid of using them. They also have wonderful naturally tanned and healthy skin. African breasts are the finest in the world, as if God's sculptor had wanted to make perfection from ebony. Don't underestimate either your natural serenity, that is both vibrant, dignified and very sexy. You don't need to overdo the sexuality, since it is naturally there, and best kept under control for when it is needed.Hair is always a problem with black women. Aborigines have it worst of all, but really understated is best, simple styles and natural, and then folk will look at your best attributes.Finally (and I speak from personal experience here), not everyone likes the bog-standard supermodel pinup. There will always be someone who will find who you are spot on, and just what they like best. Keep your lovely black eyes awake for such a person, and do not dare change when you find him! Instead, be interested in him, and try to learn about his interests enough to show him you and he have a lot in common, and be prepared and open to let friendship develop slowly… or not.