9 Responses for "I am strait but don't find men attractive. Whats the hecks wrong with me?"

1. Vanessa Hudgens March 26th, 2010 at 3:41 am 1

   Best Answer – Chosen by Voters I know exactly what you mean. I think the same thing about guys. I'm in high school and have found myself dating younger, or more feminine guys. I'm not concerned, and I don't think you should be either. Hope I helped ease your worry at least a little.

2. taylor lautner March 26th, 2010 at 3:41 am 2

   I have a female friend who had the same problem. It turned out she had a medical problem which was eaisily solved by some medication. The doctoe said her body was too stressed out and needed some rest and a boost of vitamins, iron etc.

3. taylor swift March 26th, 2010 at 3:41 am 3

   Maybe you should invite another woman into the bedroom with you and your husband….that should spice things up a bit! Source(s): fantasy

4. taylor swift March 26th, 2010 at 3:41 am 4

   your straight its down to who your willing to love not how sexually you feel towards either side.

5. lady gaga March 26th, 2010 at 3:41 am 5

   I am the same way with women. It's totally normal. Don't worry about it.

6. taylor lautner March 26th, 2010 at 3:41 am 6

   idk maybe you were made to just love yourself

7. selena gomez March 26th, 2010 at 3:41 am 7

   You're normal. Women, generally speaking, are turned on by narrative, a story about relation between sexual partners, more than by visual stimulation. You just don't happen to have a narrative of your sexuality in which you relate the physical appearance of men with your sexual attraction to them. You might not think men look attractive, but surely there are other things about them that attract you. All women are capable of being aware of each other as desire-objects, without feeling sexually stimulated. The cultural story of desire between men and women is that the man sees, wants, and acts, and the woman is seen, wanted, and acted upon. The part about the woman's desire is usually left out entirely … because when we go to discuss "what" women want, we run into a lot of sublime stuff. You can't just say we want to be admired or desired, because not all lookers and wanters are equal, and there are things each individual woman definitely wants. And you can't just say we want to be the object of action, because any action is interaction. We want a particular relation to the particular man (or woman), and a story is the only thing that develops that relation – even if it's a very short obscure story, it is psychologically complex. Often people get confused by this, and think that our desire must always be like a man's desire, because they can't define female desire. And women find themselves acting out a part of "male" desire (checking out chicks) because, well, they understand how that works, it's straightforward, and as a woman, you have to be able to identify with it. But if you're straight, that doesn't have anything to do with a desire-story of your sexual relation to another woman. A gay woman has a story of her sexuality in which women are her co-stars – she doesn't even necessarily have to be turned on by their appearance the way men stereotypically are.

8. selena gomez March 26th, 2010 at 3:41 am 8

   Although perhaps not typical, I don't think your view is all that unusual.Most women dress for other women because other women notice. Very few women really like to look at no clothes men. Notice how little pornography is made for women. Notice that there are hundreds of strip clubs with no clothes women for every one with no clothes men (and even those are fun for some women, but they don't sit there and watch the dancers like a lion watches the antelope — as in a typical topless joint).Men also have different "beautiful" and "sexy" receptors (although they often overlap). My wife can never understand how a sultry, chesty, "nasty" looking woman with a horse face can be anything but "pretty" and still very arousing (and how some beautiful women are about as sexy as a beautiful flower).Its a non-issue for you because you have moved on and are taking life like a person should. It is probably also a non-issue in that it is probably not that unusual, and, perhaps in a lesser degree, even common.

9. justin bieber March 26th, 2010 at 3:41 am 9

   YesI would not worry about it anymoreWhat would it matter if someone HERE says you're gay or you're str8?If someone says you're normal, well what is normal?If I were you I would be so happy for everything.You dated some women and some menYou chose a man and you are married AND you are HAPPY.I would ask why this bothers you so that you asked US the web people…LOLMaybe you hang out with people that say things like, wow, they are so hot, I would like to get me some of that. You do not have that but you have peace and you are HAPPY.Some people, well, all they want is to be happy and at peace.Peace