How to be cool and confident?
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14
Mar
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How to be cool and confident?
I'm going back to high school soon. 9th grade, and I am very nervous.. I feel like my stomach is falling out of my butt. I'm not confident what so ever. I have scoliosis and a big nose.. and don't know what to say to you kids.. -.- Why do you guys pick on other kids and make them feel like crap?

(im not saying you all do that.. just the mean ones out there.) WHAT THE HELL DO YOU WANT FROM ME?! *head desk* Erhm.. anyway. o.o How do I feel comfortable in my own skin and not care what other idiots say?
3 Responses for "How to be cool and confident?"
Just love yourself, look at the good points. Dont give a shiteee what other people think. Theres no way to make yourself do it you just have to. Just think to yourslef when somebody picks on you. Do i like this person? Do i care about this person? Do i want this person to like me? Will my life change because this person dosn't like me? iF the answer is no then well thats how you learn to not care, because it dosnt matter what they think because they are nobody to you concerntrait on the people that do like you.Its hard and there are times it will get to you but hey life goes on dont let them bring you down. And well dont worry because you are assuming people are going to pick on you and well if you walk through those doors and you make your self THINK that people are looking at you, you will start to look uncomfortable and this is what bullies pick up on. If you walk through those doors head held high and smiling well them nobody will notice your inperfections, they will notice your nice smile and think hey she looks friendly ill go and speak to her.Dont look at the floor, dont look shifty and uncomfortable dont think people are staring at you, talking about you because they will pick up on it!Good luck you will be fine! xxxx
Hey, you want to know something about highschool? It's not your entire life like it feels right now. You'll come to find in a few years that it's only a small part that was really not that significant compared to everything that awaits ahead. It's normal to feel nervous, hell, I'd be surprised if you weren't a little scared. I'm sorry about the scoliosis…..life can be cruel. Kids and people in general are horrible to each other. Don't ever let others determine your self worth based on the things they say to you. You have to be yourself…..you have to. Trying to be cool is about as uncool as it gets. Do you, and I promise there will be someone who sees the beauty in that. It's going to be ok……I know it.
To be confident, Have confidence.! When you walk in the halls, don't care if people look, don't look uncomfortable. Key. to looking the best possible way.! Someone trying to diss you.? walk away. Don't try and "diss" them it'll onli give them a excuse to hurt you even deeper. Everyones unique in their own way. Half the kids are shy. Try and make conversations with people that has the same interest as you. Join clubs, be friendly (: GLUCK.! Im sorry if this is the same things you heard from everyhwere you look haha. S: Source(s): me,me,me >:3 <3
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