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14 Mar
How can I help my boyfriend feel happier about himself again?
He is coming out of hospital in a few days but he is worried about the way he looks. The doctors had to shave the front part of his hair off so that they could stitch the cuts at the front of his head, and that alone has made him feel really self conscious. The whole right side of his face is badly grazed and still bright red cos the skin there doesn't seem to be healing at all at the moment. He had to have stitches along his upper lip, on his chin and down the left side of his nose. He has lots of cuts on his forehead and a pretty large cut on his left cheek too…
He is devestated at the way he looks, even though I keep telling him that it's not as bad as he thinks it is. I don't care what he looks like at all since I'm just glad to have him alive, but he is worried about what people will think when they look at him.
I presume there will be some pretty bad scarring though? Is there anything he can do to reduce the scarring? How can I make him feel better about himself?
8 Responses for "How can I help my boyfriend feel happier about himself again?"
Awww poor guy..I am glad he is going to be OK.His wounds should heal nicely…. I knew this guy who was in a terrible accident 2 years ago..and pretty much had severe facial injuries and punctured lungs..etc.He did have surgery on his face to help with it though.He was 18 when it happened. He is 20 now and he looks GREAT!! You would never know.Of course when it happened, his face looked so bad and I think he also was terrified of being that way his whole life.Again, like I said..you would never know that 2 years ago that his face was beat up pretty bad in that accident. Still a great looking guy.
He also had to be airlifted to a trauma center (that is how bad it was)As for your boyfriend do they need him to get surgery? If not… remind him it will take awhile for wounds to heal…THEN scarring to heal.When he does start healing (when the redness goes away)..try Palmers Cocoa butter to put on the scars. They sell it at Walmart..etc.It is supposed to help with making them lighter!Anyway..just be there for him..make him cookies, his fave foods..whatever. He will be back on his feet before he knows it too. Best of luck to him!! and you!:)
To reduce scarring, use vitamin e oil and aloe. Mederma will help also.To help him feel happier, just be his girlfriend and don't dwell on the accident or the injuries he has. Don't dance around it either – if he brings it up, just discuss it and go on to something else.
If you have aboyfriend or girlfriend that love's you no matter what it doesn't matter what ohters think what matter is you have someone there for ya so to hell with the world, it's just you and him
Tell him he's got a massive dick, he's sexy, he turns you on, he's all youve ever wanted. boost his ego make him feel like he's the ****….but do it so he doesn't know your doing it.
This is his lesson on how looks aren't important. There is nothing you can do, he has to learn his lesson on his own!
Be happier about him yourself. It's contagious!
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Very sorry that accident happened to him and luckily he survive. You have to support him by his side. Tell him to be brave, don't care what other people might think or make fun of his look or anything. The scarring has no choice, it takes time to heal. Even then it will still have permanent scars. Only surgery can give u advice. I wish him a speedy recover and hope you can live with him happily forever.
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