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14 Mar
How can I get friends? I really want them. I want a best friend.?
Anyways, the girls at my school are… well idk. Not extremely friendly or anything but not completely bitchy like i've seen other schools have.
On occasion i am told i am the prettiest in the grade and it makes me smile and i feel great for a little … but then i realize that i dont have very many friends.
i know a lot of people… but i dont have FRIENDS. like i dont do anything with people. i dont have parties or sleepovers… i dont go on vacations or to the pool or beach with other girls… and i dont have like one best best friend who i can count on.. and who knows that i am their best friend too.
it really makes me sad. if you were reading my description of myself and thinking wow shes a super concieted *****! please reconsider. i really honestly try to be nice and kind to everyone and i do not backstab at all!! i try hard in school and i love helping others.
i just want friends, and although it may seem like my focus is myself… well, that is b/c i don't have anyone else (friend-wise) to care for.
Any advice? I will be going to a new school next year with entirely new people.
thanks
10 Responses for "How can I get friends? I really want them. I want a best friend.?"
Best Answer – Chosen by Voters I am exactly the same as you!I'm pretty lucky, with a lot a persuading I can get pretty much anything I want and I'm told I'm quite pretty. When people tell me this I feel amazing, like I' walking on the moon but then, well it hits the ground like an atomic bomb :SYou're lucky that you can move, I have to stay where I am which isn't so delightful :/haha I'm kind of turning this answer into all about me but, I'm not like the school loser. People LIKE me. Lots of people tell me they love me but I barely have a social life, I barely see anyone outside of school and if I am lucky enough to see someone it's because their bestfriend is away.I can't really help you that much, I mean I'm not so experienced but I answered your question to let you know that you're not alone
So badly I want a best friend and a group of friends, who I can go out with and have fun with! Making friends takes a great deal of self confidence. When you go to your new school, you should eye up who you want to be friends with. Once you know the group you want to be in, you should be a bit nosey, and try and find out their general interests. Are the party animals, bookworms, athletic superheros or nerds? Try your best to fit in. You know how you said you're really nice? You have to make sure people know that. Don't try too hard (like offering to tie up peoples shoe laces), thats just bloody annoying, but if someone drops their stuff for example, don't ask if they want help just do it. From here you might be able to get a conversation going. Try not to be too shy- be approachable, but don't be too loud. People hate new people that think their all that.Sorry if I wasn't too much help but I have one piece of vital adive for you, If only I knew this 3 years ago…Even if you don't get into the group or become friends with the people you wanted, take whatever best friends you can get, no matter who they are. three years ago, I left my best friend at the time because I was sick of her and I thought I could do better. Look at me now? Ever since I've regretted it.Good luck, and remember to keep the faith
get to know people that like the same things as you do. ask them to come over one day or to them mall. try out different people too. and if one person can't come over or something like that move on to someone else. Source(s): myself
TALK! Talk and smile and laugh. Talk and smile and laugh. Ask people questions, act excited to see people. Just make other people feel happy around you, and they will want to be your friend.
Take the first step invite them over to parties make some jokes have some fun, invite them to the mall go see a movie stuff that girls like to do.
well, sounds like you have all the prospects for a bff. you just need to start inviting people to YOUR house….and be super friendly with everyone.
well, my best advice is:BE NICE!That all u gotta do.(I'm a guy…) But that all i do and i got tons of friends… Source(s): me
well youre going to a new school, which means a new startmeet some new people and present yourself as a friendly personim sure you will get plenty of friends
haha hey I'll be ur best friend
I know what you mean Im the same pfffim sooo nice & everything byr nobut i'll wait a lil bit more!!
ill b your friend.. my name is knowledge im 23 i go to collage and i work..uhmm lets see.. im a big naruto fan.. and im also a big gamer.. so yeah.. hi friend… :- )
ill be your friend n_n
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