How can I gain more confidence?
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26
Mar
How can I gain more confidence?
I'm a 15 year old teenager stuck in the 'beauty-is-everything-age' and it's really grinding me down. I'm often complimented for having a fun, unique personality but I don't feel like that's enough. I'm not exactly ugly, but I'm no Megan Fox either! I feel like my friends are much more appealing and basically my confidence has hit rock bottom.
Also, I REALLY like this boy, and I think he likes me, but a part of me thinks I'm not good enough for him or something. I upped my exercise and lost weight and I'm at a fitness high, yet I still don't feel desirable as I am not the slimmest in my group of friends. It's really getting me down.
Does anyone have any tips on how to make myself more confident and feel comfortable in my own skin? Thanks!
7 Responses for "How can I gain more confidence?"
First you should start by focusing on the positive. The sun rose today , life is beautiful, and if you don't like the way things are going change will be on your way soon. These things are little but they make me smile and every bit counts.Next would be to find the positive in yourself. I am quite fond of my eyes, I love my hair, and my smile. Then each day if I am feeling down I choose to pick a new thing to love about myself. I love my freckles, they aren't as dreadful as I remember them.Any friend worth having and any boy worth seeing will see the beauty in you as you do. At times life can feel like a popularity contest, but don't let this stop you from realizing your own beauty and talents.
You don't need to compare yourself to others. If you are living a healthy lifestyle, then you don't need to over-worry yourself with what other people think of you. Plus, if that guy likes you now, then he likes the way you are now, and probably cares more about your unique personality than your looks.
date someone who not as good looking as you and you will always feel better and like he could never do better than you lol..plus he will compliment you alot.thats what i do!also just remember that theres always someone for EVERYONE and am sure youre not like the ugliest girl in the world and actually the prettiest girls are always the most insecure.if you remember that when you feel bad it will help alot Source(s): just me
I have learned that we cannot achieve beauty unless we discover what out image of beauty is. We cannot base our idea of beauty on society. you have already made the mistake of making beauty seem like megan fox, when in actually, anything can be beautiful. you have to really deeply think about yourself. be who you are. you are pretending right now.
Smiling is a plus, just feel internally happy, and carefree, meaning that you don't care what people think of you. just be yourself, and smile
look in the mirror and say."hey i look goood today"
well exercise is the best stress reliever in the world and best confidence boosterother than that the only real way is to do things ur not confident in doing…like im not confident in speaking in public places and the more i do it the easier it is….same thing with attraction u have to go for things u dont wanna do of course eventually ur gonna get turned down but the only thing u can do is just rebound and the same thing the more u get turned down the easier it becomes to handle…..but u must start early u dont wanna be the aging lady late twenties who cant find a man because shes scared of the outcome
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