How can I convince my boyfriend to take better care of himself?

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14 Mar

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How can I convince my boyfriend to take better care of himself?

Hey guys,

I've been with my boyfriend for 15 months now, and I'm really happy. I just wish he took care of himself better, he's in a band so he likes to have long hair, but after a while, I wish it was shorter and not too long. He does get a haircut every 6 months but it grows back really fast. He also doesn't washes his face.. he kind of does (only with water) but he also has oily skin so his face kind of smells after a long day. When I kiss him, the scent bothers me a little. I tried buying proactiv (because he also has acne) but it gave him a really bad reaction and his skin is super sensitive. Because of this, he refuses to use any other cleanser for his face. He also doesn't use body wash when he showers, he just uses water.. and I don't know if he cleans well down there either. He is uncircumcised and sometimes he asks me to give him oral. I sometimes get stuff in my mouth, I think it's called smegma? I just wanna know what I can do. Thnaks.

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5 Responses for "How can I convince my boyfriend to take better care of himself?"

taylor swift March 14th, 2010 at 1:22 pm 1
If he has smegma, refuse to give him oral. That's just gross. As far as how to clean him up… I'm going to give you a little bit of advice.Read what's written in this picture–> http://ep.yimg0o0com/ca/I/villagestreetwea…If you can adopt that philosophy, you can convince him to shower and scrub clean twice a day. He'll do it and he'll love you for it.
justin bieber March 14th, 2010 at 1:22 pm 2
Be very clear with him that his Hygiene is something that is important to you and affects the relationship. Explain to him specific things, just like you said here (smell, stuff in your mouth, etc…). Since this is a long relationship (15months), you really should have some decent communication built up, otherwise, now is a great time to start. Tell him your concerns, work together a solution, and become closer doing it.
justin bieber March 14th, 2010 at 1:22 pm 3
Get him a body wash that you like, and does not smell like cheap cologne. Softsoap Pomegranate/Mango body wash is supposedly good for downstairs – not perfumy, and leaves a surprisingly neutral clean scent. I really don't know about the face – try to get him different products to see what might work.
Vanessa Hudgens March 14th, 2010 at 1:22 pm 4
well i hate to tell ya but hes asked about a few things abt you he says your breath stinks as well as ? and thats not your pic. shown there as i hate too tell you you gotta shave or get that wax bbrizalian style youre harry and bushy down south !!!!!
selena gomez March 14th, 2010 at 1:22 pm 5
I think if this continues for a longer period of time, you'll get really annoyed with it. The one thing that turns me off in a guy is when he isn't hygienic. To wash a body with just water….well maybe some people are OK with that but it really doesn't clean anything in my opinion, especially not the underarms and things like that. I can completely imagine you wouldn't want to give him oral if it's dirty. I'd advise you not to, who knows what stuff is under that foreskin besides old urine….smegma is definitely not something you'd want in your mouth. Next time he asks, just say "if you wash it first, sure". I think you should sit down with him, tell him how much you love him, but that the way he takes care of himself really bothers you and see how he reacts.

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