I got them two weeks ago, and so the swelling is all gone and stuff. (:
I know a lot about piercing care,
and my situation's kind of a normal one yet I can't find anything on it..

long story short, about 5 days ago, I accidentally messed up the rings and before I had them in properly again they were all f***ed up
(yes, I am retarded and decided to put rings in first. No hating, I *sort of* knew what I was doing..and that it was going to be more bothersome than using studs..)
and was waiting for my bf to come over and help me fix em
(my tremor didn't let me connect the back right)
one of my friends managed to make me tear the skin pretty badly.
You can only tell if you look at the inside, but yeah.
Originally, the tears were about 1/2cm a long and fully showed the piercing through the ripped skin ._.,
now they're nearly healed, and have been like 3 times now. (I heal fast)
sea salt works really well.. since i'm me I can see a real difference after about an hour.
but my bf keeps ripping the half-healed still weak skin…[my pain tolerance is the best out of everyone I know, teehee..]
…what should I do? DX
yesterday I accidentally let myself wince..
he was worried about me and asked what was up
and I casually mentioned that he kind of tore them a little, and he freaked out..
he looked like he was about to cry and he must have said sorry a thousand times..
took forever to convince him that it wasn't actually all that bad. >__<;;
I had to lie and ****, saying that it rarely happens and it didn't actually hurt that bad.
what should I do? .__.,,
this situation is ridiculous..