Gay make overrrrrrrrr?

Okay, so I'm gay. I'm VERY feminine. You know how people say gays have an amazing sense of fashion? I seriously think my sense of fashion is broken…along with my gaydar. ANYWAY!! I come from a poor home and I can't afford to buy the things I'd like. I don't even know what I like! All I know is I want an attractive, sophisticated but feminine look…for a guy. Sophisticated around my age level…I'm 17. 18 in March. Oh yeah. I mean the "guy" clothes I normally get have got to go! South pole? Um, ew.

Anyway, I need some SERIOUS fashion types. On everything. whether it be clothes, hair, accessories, and skin care. I want to know it allllllll. lol. Any help?
Btw, I'm "plus size" so take that into consideration. i'm not ashamed of my size. which is why i want to look good. Big is beautiful.