6 Responses for "Does anyone think this is a good idea?"

1. selena gomez March 15th, 2010 at 10:09 pm 1

   If you go with her, just leave your boyfriend because you can't think anything of him. You are being unfaithful. It doesn't matter if its a male or female. You are selfish and not a nice person even to consider it.

2. lady gaga March 15th, 2010 at 10:09 pm 2

   Why are you in an open relationship?I really don't see the point of being with someone if you're just going to cheat on them, or whatever.But yeah, not my place to judge.Go out with her if you want, it's your choice at the end of the day.

3. lady gaga March 15th, 2010 at 10:09 pm 3

   explore yourself you will get your answer

4. lady gaga March 15th, 2010 at 10:09 pm 4

   You already know the answer. You're looking for validation to be a tramp. Bess knows you have a boyfriend but she is willing to be smarmy and get you to go with her behind your boyfriends back. Then you're going to do it, he's going to find out, there will be tears, he will break up with you, and while all the drama is going on Bess will step out on you and hook up with the next conquest, dropping you like a hot potato, and you'll cry a river and try to play victim, and in reality you'll be alone for the holidays and no one will want to be around you because you'll be pouting and you have no one to blame but yourself.If you want to spice up your live life, get yourself a sex toy. And let you BF play it with you. He can't get mad at a sex toy.

5. miley cyrus March 15th, 2010 at 10:09 pm 5

   If you told your boyfriend that Bess has the hots for you and he got angry…you DONT have an open relationship. Its sounds more to me like he views you as a monogamous couple…maybe the initial attitude in your relationship was "open" but it doesn't sound like it is now. You just simply need to decide what you want….remember that by going with Bess you very well may compromise your relationship with your boyfriend. Take the plunge and be honest with your boyfriend…tell him you love him but want to explore a bit and you see now as a great opportunity. I don't need to tell you though that he views Bess as a threat…the fact that hes not included for one…and the fact that Bess wants a relationship with you…makes her competition for him. You should start first by discussing the current climate of your "open" relationship with your boyfriend…if he seems hesitant or not hip to it when you bring up Bess…it won't get any better should you pursue your curiosity with Bess.

6. Vanessa Hudgens March 15th, 2010 at 10:09 pm 6

   when you and your boyfriend became a couple, you should have agreed to something. u agreed to have an open relationship and u should have defined what was allowed and what was prohibited in this open relationship that you have. so that there are clearly defined roles and boundaries. i think you failed to do this and now someone might get hurt. so now if you care about your boyfriend, u have to go to him and ask him whether that is acceptable. if he accepts, then he is also allowed to have another relationship on the side. then how would that make you feel??? are you ok with him having another relationship??? he already told u that it wasnt ok. and for me it is obvious that if you have a relationship with this girl that would end the relationshiip with your boyfriend. so its your choice, you have to choose between having him and having her. i dont think its going to be possible to have em both.