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…my ex has been rampantly accusing me of following him, stalking him, etc because I finally broke free enough from his opinion of me to transfer to his school (he'd talked me out of coming when we were together because it's like "his" territory)… so he'd introduced me to this great church before we broke up, and when I got here I actually sank low enough to ASK HIM if I could come there. Stupid on my part, but I still had feelings for him that clouded everything. Anyway, I'm here one quarter and throughout the quarter I piece things together and realize he actually left me for one of his "cute, bubbly fresh" friends. When I finally bring this up as a fact that he can't deny, he starts going crazy. He goes to his also-controlling father because he feels threatened (duh, you cheated and I found out). His daddy calls my dad and says he needs to come to {our city}. My dad says "and do what." so his dad replies well I guess we'll just have to call the cops then. So he cries to his mummy and daddy and they pet him and say go get an RO on this poor deluded girl. ARGH!!!! Now I may not be able to, well, blah blah blah. Anyway this is absolutely ridiculous. I haven't threatened him in any way, although I have sent him multiple emails regarding this chick and concerning some other things. Just to get under his skin XD sorry. not sorry. We were together for 2.5 years and going strong. He broke up with me just because he was confused about his feelings at the time, but ascribed it to religious jargon ("she's merciful and compassionate, but our relationship was rife with sinful passion" – what I heard him talking to a mentor about).

SO. He's convinced everyone at the church I'm obsessed with him, I can't smile or be happy there or be myself without someone assuming I'm doing it for show (so it'll get back to him that 'I'm okay'). I like this church. I agree with the doctrine more than any other church I've been to. I like the people and we all get along despite this outrageousness.

So my question.. can he get a restraining order on me just for the emails I sent (in which I tell him I don't care if he exists or even about the other girl, I just want this **** cleared up so it doesn't reach this point and so we can both peacefully go to this church we both like).

Blah blah blah. Can I appeal this, too, if he doesn't drop the charges?